Friday, February 17, 2012

Need some help here very awkward and confused on what to do(girls only please)?

I liked this girl last year and I asked her out and it was a rejection we had been good friends and still are for a year after about a month after the rejection she told me her cousin liked me but didn't have the guts to tell me and I had never talked to her or even payed any attention to her because I still liked her cousin but one day I was on Facebook and she started talking to me and she kinda asked me out by accident and I said yes and we only dated for about 3 months but I started to fall in love with her and we went to Missouri together and went up in the St. Louis arch and spent time with each other all week but she said we wasn't dating because it was a church trip and both of her parents went and she didn't want them thinking we were gonna do anything so we went to six flags together and spent all day together and it wad great and rode home together and said goodbye and went home we got back in the middle of the day but she had ended the relationship with me on her facebook page and the first day back the next morning it said she was in a relationship with another guy I was devastated and mad she had only ended because she didn't want her parents to suspect anything and now she's dating another guy I was so mad and the guy completely treats her like **** or he's really nice to her and I treated her perfect but they dated for about 5 months on and off and she would talk to me about and I would listen because I cared about her and I told her my opinion and she trusted me and we were good friends all year talked everyday and it tore me up inside knowing that she liked someone else and me talking about it she's all I can think about day and night my last girlfriend after we broke up we moved on and hardly ever talked and even acknowledged each other but with her the feeling never goes away and my heart is crushed now were great friends and she flirts with me were pretty much like brother and sister except for the family part and we even go to movies and go bowling as friends but she's always talking to me about problems with her ex and how she's confused on what to do and I dread to even think about the fact with her being with somebody else and if I asked her out it would be awkward because were such good of friends and there's this other girl that moved here at the beginning of the year and we have become extremely close friends we go to movies together and she has a twin sister I'm good friends with too and we talk everyday and she likes this one kid who's a jerk off and doesn't even take her seriously about her feelings towards her and it makes me mad because I would treat her so much better and same with my ex and I'm just stuck right here on what to doNeed some help here very awkward and confused on what to do(girls only please)?
You could still "try" for the first girl, but if you do have someone you are at least happy with, have fun with, why not just stick with her. That first girl seems to do nothing but give you grief %26amp; hurt you by talking about her "relationship" %26amp; how bad it's going. IF it was going that bad, she'd do herself one big favor %26amp; get rid of him %26amp; look for someone who would at least give her happiness. IF you want to see if she'd go out with you, then ask her. What's the worse thing she could say but no. You don't even "have" her now, so you really wouldn't be loosing someone you had. Do what you feel is best, but if you are enjoying being with the other girl, I'd stick with her. At least you'd know you have a sure thing anyway...good luck.*
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